It’s really not that big a deal.” But also keep in mind the advice of Tip 30 in which “you should never flirt with his friend,” because, God forbid, “he’ll think you’re fucking with him.” 2.His ego is WAY more important to him than either you or reality.For instance, in Tip 43, in which we women are advised to lovingly indulge male threesome fantasies: “Just tolerate his attempts to make it happen.He can’t help himself.” According to Tip 3, in which “You shouldn’t take it personally when he checks out other women,” his ogling “is a reflex and he can’t help it.” Also, in case the point is not clear enough, there’s Tip 12 (“He wants to bang your friends”): “Don’t take it personally—he’s wanted to bang 90% of all the women he’s ever met.If you meet a guy you like and he has kids, here are some things to consider:1. Bad behavior often reflects ineffective parenting and other problems, and these problems will have a destructive effect on your relationship.3. There’s a difference between a divorced dad who has full custody because mom has serious issues and a divorced dad who only has his child during the summer. Hopefully, the single dad’s ex will be a reasonably nice person and he will have a good relationship with her.The number of kids he has will affect your relationship BIG TIME. If the ex is difficult, this will cause problems down the road.This is what people mean when they say "it's a package deal."These days, with the divorce rate hovering close to 50 percent, the likelihood of dating a man with children is pretty high.
The penis-controlled soul of a man is clearly more susceptible to moral lapses than the uterus-led moral compass of a woman.A man with kids has a lifetime obligation to those kids, and they will require his love, attention, and money.If you find you don’t like to share, or you just don’t like kids, that’s fine — it’s better to know this and avoid dating men with children, rather than put yourself in a situation that isn’t fair to you, him, or the kids.So what kind of female confusions does Henderson aim to correct with his advice for understanding the male psyche?Here is a thematic breakdown of his list of 50 tips: 1.The man you are dating is a father first and foremost.